Boston Whaler published their recommendations for making repairs to Unibond hulls, and those instructions are reproduced in an article in the REFERENCE section. See
INSTRUCTIONS -- HULL PATCH KITShttps://continuouswave.com/whaler/refer ... tions.htmlNote the factory instructions always recommended using a polyester resin for repairs. Boat builders tend to use polyester resins when laminating a fiberglass boat because the cost of polyester resin in much less than alternative resins such as marine epoxy resin. Also, when those instructions were written, polyester gel coat resin and polyester laminating resin were the products generally in use by all boat builders in that epoch.
Another article in the REFERENCE section demonstrates repair using the methods suggested by the factory:
Repairing Hull Damage the Whaler Way
by Taylor Clark https://continuouswave.com/whaler/refer ... epair.htmlRegarding repair of gel coat areas that have non-skid patterns, I have not done this myself, but my impression--pun intended--is that preserving the non-skid pattern is difficult, particularly if most of the non-skid pattern has been ground off already. The usual technique is to take an impression of the non-skid pattern from an undamaged area, then use that impression as a mold to cast into the repair gel coat layer the pattern of the non-skid as the gel coat resin is beginning to cure and becomes somewhat pliable but not likely to reflow. That method is only useful for isolated and small areas of damage to the non-skid. If large areas of the non-skid are no longer intact, restoring the non-skid pattern by using the self-make pattern technique won't be possible.
When large areas of the gel coat surface have become cracked or crazed, attempting to make individual repairs on small areas and then have those repairs blend in with the original undamaged surfaces adjacent to the repairs will be difficult and time consuming. At some point a decision has to be made to simply apply a completely new top coat layer to the entire area.
There is a very good demonstration of large-area repair of cracked and crazed gel coat of an older Boston Whaler boat available on youTube. The presentation was done by TotalBoat and, of course, uses their products. But it is an excellent demonstration of a nice refurbishment to the interior of an older 13-foot hull. I recommend you study the method shown at
Boston Whaler Crazing Repairhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4tZDBOYqdfAAfter you review the three sources of advice on repair that I mentioned above with hyperlinks, you should have a better idea of how to undertake the refurbishment of the cockpit of your older 13-footer.
Also, without seeing what you have already done and the surface condition of the areas where you used grinding, to suggest the next steps is difficult.